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Passive Aggressive car dealer email made me laugh today.

Is not about negotiating, I negotiate when I buy chewing gum if I see an opening, is the attitude that we don't deserve to get paid and that people like you have the right to decide how much I get paid for the work that a sales person does.

Even worse is the look down with comments allegating that we get paid for "just pushing a few buttons"
 
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It may have been removed since it include the sales person and dealers contact info. If I get the chance, I'll blur out and repost. Until then, here it is.

Passive aggressive? I don't get that from this email. Slight frustration due to the fact of not hearing back from the consumer - probably.
 
@Jeff, thanks dude! ....so where's the passive-aggressiveness? @eddyshaf is right, it looks like a final or 10+ day email, which most of the time is there to check the weather. The "if theres something i done to offend you" and "Could it be me" is a little weird for a dealer email, but I see no problem with the latter.

A simple "not interested" reply would eliminate their need to show their desperation to you.
 
Yago,

I am stunned at your reply. I had no dis-respect intended to anyone what so ever. It was simply an observation. If you're a vendor and you've not sold cars for a living, be cautious about your shopper-based conclusions. I said that because I see it all the time.

If I offended you or anyone else, please accept my apologies. It was not my intent.
 

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# Summary A customer (Neal/dvMail) who works in automotive manufacturing posts about demanding supplier pricing on a custom vehicle order, viewing dealer markup as excessive for minimal work. Dealership industry professionals strongly push back, arguing that dealers provide legitimate value through facilities, liability, safety checks, and expertise that justify their profits, while also questioning why a non-sales person is on an industry forum criticizing their compensation model. The key insight is a fundamental disagreement over whether dealers earn their markup: the customer sees it as undeserved profit for basic order processing, while dealers view it as fair compensation for operating a franchised business with real overhead and risk.

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