Hey Jerry,
You wanted to know how both of these calls worked out. Here you go:
Call #5 - Ron emailed me after I emailed him his confirmation and he asked me again if the car had Nav and Paddle shifters lol I told him yes. Then he later that day filled out a new internet lead asking if the car had Paddle Shifters and Nav....I called him back and told him that I promise him that it does and that I even walked out to the car myself and checked! Btw, I did try to get a deposit from Ron, but he didn't want to give one. I said "well if the car is sold by the time you guys drive here, then it just wasn't meant to be and we'll help you with something else."
Btw, I met Ron and his wife, Cathy today and they were super duper nice. I went out to see Ron when he was looking at the car and I introduced myself and I said "see I promised you that there was Nav and Paddles." He shook my hand and said "you did an excellent job, thank you."
They bought this afternoon and the car will be delivered this friday or Monday.
Call # 6 - Elaine was a hoot. I really had a good time talking to her. She called me back twice in the day and emailed me a few times back and forth. I made the appointment for Monday at 7pm with her. We just kept joking back and forth in our emails. And
YES, Elaine gave me a $1,000 credit card deposit over the phone.
My sales guy asked me today what price I quoted her and I said "nothing, just the price that was on the web." He asked "she didn't ask for a better price?" I said "we didn't really talk about price, we were just laughing and joking." He was like oh, ok. Eventually she did with the sales guy though. I left today at 6pm and she was in the middle of faxing in her insurance info and license and credit app as she agreed to the price and to buy the car. She was coming in at 7pm this evening.
And for those folks that tell you that you can't get credit card deposits over the phone, I don't know what they say that. I took 1 from the gentleman in West Virginia (and he bought the car) and I took one from Elaine (and she bought) and I took another one from a customer today (and she's claiming she's going to buy...and I believe her because she had her insurance guy call me today.)
I feel myself asking more now that I knew it can be done

And even though Ron kinda flinched at it when I spoke to him about it....I mean he is 3 hrs away! Most of the other customers seem happy that I suggest it so no one else buys the car.........most of these BMW folks that call in generally have a very good idea what they want.
Ok thanks again for the great feedback! I hope my results helped!