Billy:
The leads from your own website are ALWAYS going to close at a higher clip. That doesn't mean that those leads are exclusive to your own website (meaning your website didn't originate the consumer). If a consumer saw your vehicle on a third party site (lets just say for the sake of argument your name was Billy Ford) and then decided in the next day or two to come back to that vehicle, but instead of going to the third party site they thought, hmmm his name was Billy Ford, I wonder if there is a BillyFord.com or if there is not I know I can google it. That way I won't have to sift through all the other vehicles to find it again. BOOM! Now the consumer is at your front door and ready to learn your hours, your salespeople, your history, and come buy a car. People that go to your website are usually in the final stages of purchase. It is where they start their search that doesn't get credit. You, the dealer, don't want to know that a consumer went to your website, contacted through it, and then bought a vehicle, do you? I would think you would want to know how they arrived at your website. I may be wrong here, but I don't think people just wake up and go to BillyFord.com. There must be some kind of call to action(advertisement). The great thing about Cars.com and AutoTrader.com is that people that go to those site are only looking for one thing, a vehicle. Those two sites dominate the online used car marketplace. You do believe that most of your consumers are finding you online now, right?
Saying that the leads on your personal website are the best to you REP is the same difference as you not allowing your REP to say "We are not a lead provider." In my case, and I sell for Cars.com, I AM NOT A LEAD PROVIDER, but I do sell a "lead-providing" product, ha! You, the dealer, create your own leads and are not relying on me to provide them to you. If you are sitting back and waiting for AutoTrader.com or Cars.com to provide you leads, then other dealers are taking advantage of you. My job is to put your inventory in front of as many car shoppers as possible and then let them contact you in any way they seem fit (email,phone,website,walk-in). The analogy of comparing Cars.com/AutoTrader.com to a billboard is ridiculous, unless of course you live in a town where everybody that drives down the road is a car shopper at that moment. If so, I think all the dealers on here want to relocate to your town.
Also, I know you were kidding when you said that "My willingness to be on these vendor sites has everything to do with the fact that my competitors are on there and nothing else."...right? If not, there are plenty of one-liners that will fit here (insert one to your pleasing).
This is a great topic and I have enjoyed learning some of the things dealers expect and want from us as third party vendors/salespeople. I will keep telling my dealers that I am NOT a lead provider even if they think otherwise. I love what I do and my dealers know that. I expect them to have the same passion about their business as I do. Yes we will butt heads on occasion, but we can also learn from each other and try to understand our different points of view.
I got to eat dinner now.
McCoy